So two days ago I hit a real low. My Baby Girl and I are working through difficult times and trying to establish our own unique blend of D/s. Naturally I am a leader and a teacher and a guide and mentor – in many domains of my life. From ancient zen wisdom comes the expression “I shall teach you to the best of your ability”. Now I appreciate that has the potential to sound phenomenally arrogant – until we stop and think and realise that when it comes with love and humility it is really beautiful and makes a good teacher. We can easily drown someone by sharing knowledge which above their ability to assimilate – too big a step from their current level of understanding. One would not deliver a PhD lecture to an undergraduate! That would be egotistical and showing off potentially. Or at the very least failing to be a good teacher and understand that your job is to teach by taking them just one step further than where they are, with an occasional well judged leap.
I suppose I should start with a humble hello. I am just an ordinary man but one who loves to share and give and help where he can. Writing is a powerful way for me to output my thoughts and so far on my journey in discovery of my Dominance and the powerful potential for aspects of Dominance and submissive psychology in creating a more harmonious and special relationship within a long term relationship or marriage.
So, how did it all start. Continue reading First I should say hello