So I believe that the most common male roleplay fantasy is Schoolgirl. If it is not the highest then it certainly is high up the list and sales of schoolgirl uniforms probably outstrip any other uniform / roleplay outfit.
I pondered upon this as it has always been a big favourite of mine. As I enjoy understanding myself and have chosen a zen journey of self discovery and have interests in psychology I began to make connections between my penchant for schoolgirl uniforms / roleplays in our bedroom play and the whole sexual psychology thing and my Dominant nature. There are those who believe and suggest that this comes from males first sexual awakening coming around the time of being at school and, who were the females to which they were attracted….. the schoolgirls they saw every day. I can go with that. So why do girls often not get off seeing their husband as a schoolboy in uniform! (I am sure do enjoy this but I think you see my point – no?) It is common for girls to like older boys or girls – perhaps because we know that girls tend to mature physically and emotionally rather sooner than boys and often find boys really immature and irritating. Hence perhaps they prefer the older guy. This is often true of adult women.
So what of all this? Perhaps it is then that the adult Dominant male who has paternal, protective, caring needs will feel that is enhanced by having His sub dress as a schoolgirl – it will engender a submissive state within the sub female and hey presto – away you go!
Of course it also lends itself to the “correction”, guidance, discipline role required by both the Dom and the sub. She needs to feel that she is cared for and protected and guided but the “older man” and He gets to feel He has the caring and controlling role. Perhaps even the childlike, playful, bratty nature even comes out more naturally from the sub and what is more fun than being a little childlike. Oh and of course that bratty mouth might cross respect boundaries intentionally when the sub feels in need of a little spanking or something to teach that smart mouth a lesson. Maybe just to feel His dominance in sexual play.
In another post I shall write about DD/lg / “little” submissive dynamics. I have discovered that for me I really like aspects of “little” behaviour. It really allows my protective caring nature to come in and I like the playful bratty nature of things. Give me some cute white frill ankle socks or overknee socks with a uniform and my insides go crazy! But I realise also now that contrast (another post too) is a powerful thing and I know for sure I love to dress my Pretty Girl up in beautiful elegant dresses and stunning classy sexy high heels (my biggest weakness).
Anyway – that’s just my two penneth……..